The symbolic wedding rite: let's discover the most popular trends

Every couple wishes their wedding ceremony to be unforgettable. Yet, which rite to choose? Civil or religious ritual? With a public promise? One of the increasingly popular trends is celebrating the event with a (symbolic) representation of the «yes »moment at the preferred wedding location.

The wedding day is one of the most significant moments in a couple's life, an occasion to unite their lives and celebrate love. Many bridegrooms are looking for a unique and impressive venue to hold their alternative wedding rite, a place that will make this day even more special and unforgettable. Celebrating the symbolic ceremony at Al Chiar di Luna di Monte di Procida means plunging into a romantic and fascinating atmosphere.

The representation must necessarily be symbolic: Italian laws in our country prescribe that, from a formal point of view, the marriage must be celebrated either at a municipal seat or in a place of worship if agreements exist with the Italian State for that worship. However, the «American style» is becoming an increasingly popular modality. In other words, with an actual public promise in a place different from where you sign the official documents: after legalising the wedding in the Church or the Municipality, you can arrange an open-air ceremony in the way you prefer. It is a stylish replication of the religious or civil ceremony without restrictions, where cheerfulness and a unique atmosphere are the absolute stars. At Al Chiar di Luna, we have also often held ceremonies with a symbolic celebration with powerful emotions. Everyone aims to customise the event as best they can, choosing readings, words and music. After all, the symbolic rite has no rigid rules, and everything can be adapted according to the wishes or needs of the couple: clothing to arrangements, presence or absence of guests. Generally, the ceremony begins with an introduction by the celebrant (religious or civil), who talks about the couple, their wishes and their union. Then, it is time to move on to whatever the couple has planned, and here are the most unusual customs. Among the more trendy ones are:

  1. The ribbon ritual: each colour corresponds to an essential value for the couple, and ribbons are tied around the wrists (obviously, very lightly...) to strengthen the bond in an indissoluble way.
  2. The wine rite: the nectar of the gods turns into the representation of the bride and groom sharing their future.
  3. The rite of the tree: with this rite, a sapling or plant is planted in a pot, and the couple will care for it constantly to make it grow robust, as each partner should do.
  4. The rite of light: the bride and groom, each with their candle, light a third candle, which will be kept in the marital home to be re-lighted on each anniversary and whenever there is a need to remember the commitments taken on that particular day. Other small candles can be added to this one, one for each child to be born.
  5. The rite of the rings: the so-called "Ring Warming" consists of hanging the rings (in view or a bag) at the entrance of the ceremony venue, and the guests, taking them in their hands and shaking them, will "warm" them with their good wishes and positive thoughts.

In short, you are spoilt for choice. However, remember that it is not fiction after all: it is just a different idea of marriage, and the authenticity of the promise is what really counts.

Celebrating the symbolic wedding rite with a public promise at Al Chiar di Luna has several advantages, making this option irresistible. Moreover, our location, nestled in an enchanting corner of Monte di Procida, is both elegant and sophisticated and warm and welcoming. It provides a unique atmosphere for your wedding.

Al Chiar di Luna allows you to tailor the ceremony to the couple's wishes. Whether it is a traditional ceremony or a more modern interpretation, our venue boasts elegant and evocative spaces. Refined indoor and outdoor settings with breathtaking views of the Gulf of Naples grant multiple options to create the perfect atmosphere you have always dreamed of for your wedding.

In addition, our experienced and careful staff will be by your side to guide you through the planning and organisation of the ceremony, from choosing the arrangements to the flower decorations, from the menu to the entertainment. 

Conclusions

If you decide to celebrate your symbolic wedding rite at Al Chiar di Luna, you create an intimate and exclusive atmosphere for your event. The magic of this place will envelop you and create everlasting memories you will carry in your heart forever.

Don't miss the opportunity to celebrate the most important day of your life in an extraordinary place with a romantic atmosphere, surrounded by the beauty of nature and attention to detail.

There are numerous advantages to celebrating the symbolic wedding rite at Al Chiar di Luna: complete tailoring, top-quality services,  intimate and exclusive atmosphere. Choosing our venue means turning your wedding into an extraordinary experience. This moment of magic and love will remain forever in the hearts of everyone, both bride and groom and guests.